GW Rule #3     Show nothing to your friend that might affright him.

PEEVES            Alarmeth not your pal.

MADAMA           Be aware of your emotional state and the impact of your actions on others.

SANDRA             If you need help, seek out professionals who can help.  Your friends should not be expected to cover for you or to constantly bear the weight of your difficulties.  That being said, you don’t have to bear it alone. Is that what you meant, George?